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Healing from Domestic Abuse – How to Know if You Will Avoid Another Abusive Relationship

by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. People say once a victim, always a victim. I beg to differ. Over the years I have been watching men and women grow to become self-sufficient, self-respecting people who have no tolerance for being abused any more. These people have completely healed from domestic abuse. To read the complete article, please visit: Healing from Domestic Abuse – How to Know if You Will Avo… Continue

Added by Dr. Jeanne King on October 29, 2009 at 8:05am — No Comments

Legal Psychiatric/Psychological Abuse – From Family to Court, from Court to Shrink

by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. A survivor asks, “Once your abusive partner has used the legal system for further abuse, and final papers are filed with you having to see a psychologist of his choosing, what do you do? How do you turn the case around? He continues to threaten to take the children away.” When you are in this situation, it feels like something went “wrong.” You ask yourself, “How is it that I’m the victim/survivor and I’m having to defend myself and prove my mental/emotional stability… Continue

Added by Dr. Jeanne King on October 5, 2009 at 6:02am — No Comments

Find Out How Academic Term Papers Are Completed From Scratch To The End

Writing Academic Term Papers writing is the most frightening event that takes place in my education career. Every time when I am assigned to write my academic term papers, I literally feel myself falling into hot boiling water. Writing academic term papers really means a nightmare to me. But whether I like it or not, I have to, and you guys also, have to undergo the intense experience of academic term papers writing. It seems like I am wrestling… Continue

Added by jimmy on September 28, 2009 at 6:52am — No Comments

Spousal Emotional Abuse - Spirit Breaking in Abusive Relationships

by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. Some people think that emotional abuse is vague. They say it’s hard to define, hard to identify and simply can’t be seen. Not so! Emotional abuse is as clear as your feelings when they are felt. It’s the smothering of or dismantling of your inner well-being, your self-inspired passions, your inner knowing of what is true for you. To read the complete article, please visit:… Continue

Added by Dr. Jeanne King on September 25, 2009 at 10:25am — No Comments

ALL WOMEN ARE SISTERS

All Women Are Sisters A woman was murdered and another woman was wounded beyond repair. I wish I could say this is a unique situation. Domestic violence knows no socioeconomic or educational boundaries and yet we as women rarely speak publicly on this injustice. Women empowering women must discuss this often swept under the rug subject, otherwise who are we kidding? Women need to speak together loudly to strengthen the spirits of these women who have lost their voices. We must lend them ours. T… Continue

Added by Victoria Hart on September 21, 2009 at 9:44pm — 1 Comment

Verbal Abuse in Marriage - 7 Realities about Verbal Emotional Abuse

by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. I hear people say, “My partner is controlling and he puts me down.” Then they add, “It is abusive, but it’s only verbal.” The question I have is, how do you feel about that? How does it make you feel when spoken to as he/she does? And how do feel about yourself in relation to your partner? To read the complete article, please visit: Verbal Abuse in M… Continue

Added by Dr. Jeanne King on September 4, 2009 at 8:07am — No Comments

Discover How To Write First-Rate College Term Papers With No Stress

College term paper writing is in reality not a child’s play as I thought when I first time was given to write a term paper . I gladly started writing my college term papers but soon realized that I would need some great help if I have to finish them on time. Well, as it is very obvious that most of the students rush to internet when it comes to find college term paper guidelines. But it is not so easy to find the guidelines which you need most. So I bro… Continue

Added by jimmy on August 27, 2009 at 5:14am — No Comments

Legal Domestic Abuse – Holding It Together, When Everything Is Falling Apart

by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. If you are leaving a batterer and find yourself in family court, you may be asking yourself this question:How do I hold it together when everything is falling apart? Whether you initiated your divorce proceedings or not, you wonder how can things be getting worse when you expected remedy for the abuse you have endured. To read the complete article, please visit:… Continue

Added by Dr. Jeanne King on August 21, 2009 at 6:18am — No Comments

Divorce Abuse - Does the System Not Work, or Do You Not Know How to Work the System?

Battered women and uninformed bystanders frequently say that the system doesn’t work. While it may not be perfect, it most certainly works. The real problem is most people don’t know how to work the system. Here are a few things you will want to do as you navigate the system.... To read, this article, please visit: Legal Abuse - Does the System Not Work, or Do You Not Know How to Work the System?… Continue

Added by Dr. Jeanne King on August 9, 2009 at 12:00pm — No Comments

News Letter

Hi everyone, Who would be interested in receiving the first FINA BELLA JOURNAL (news letter) ?????? Richard The Fina Bella Group

richard@finabella.net wwwfinabella.net… Continue

Added by Richard Payne on August 3, 2009 at 7:03pm — No Comments

Spousal Abuse Legal – Do the Divorce Lawyers and Family Courts Get It or Not?

by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. Battered women, who are victims of spousal legal abuse, tell me, “The courts and attorneys don’t get it!” These women truly believe that the court agents don’t understand domestic abuse. But the fact is the divorce lawyers and family court agents do understand. They most definitely get it! The one who doesn’t get it is the battered woman. I certainly understand how that is and why they don’t get it. Read on because the sooner you get it, the sooner you will help yours… Continue

Added by Dr. Jeanne King on July 20, 2009 at 10:07am — No Comments

Cultivating Faith Under Adversity

I struggle with faith, I always have. If I can’t see it, hear it or feel it, it’s hard for me to believe it’s there. And I am so envious of those who just have it. It is rock solid for them and they never seem to waiver in their conviction or belief that God or a higher power or whatever they call it, is there for them. I want that kind of belief in faith, I truly do. Although I am in the process of collecting stories from other women who have gone through adversity, make no mistake; I’ve got m… Continue

Added by Eva Lee on July 9, 2009 at 6:00pm — No Comments

Domestic Violence Counseling: When the Counselor Becomes Your Enemy

By Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. I often hear domestic violence survivors complain that the counselor they are seeing with their partner has sided with him/her. These victims expected to seek therapeutic remedy for the dysfunction that they live, and they discover they have gained another “enemy.” Here are some things you will want to know if you are going to a therapist with your partner for domestic abuse. To read full article, please visit:… Continue

Added by Dr. Jeanne King on June 20, 2009 at 12:32pm — 2 Comments

Psychological Abuse: 6 Tips for Holding Your Own When Improperly Labeled with a Psychiatric Diagnosis

As a psychologist, domestic abuse consultant and one who has known domestic violence personally, I’m frequently approached by battered women for “psychological truth.” They are eager to know if the names and labels given to them by their abusive partners, or by the court agents acting on their abuser’s behalf, hold any validity. Many domestic violence survivors intuitively know they are falsely labeled, but remain at an impasse as to how they can refute such allegations. That is, how they can c… Continue

Added by Dr. Jeanne King on June 2, 2009 at 6:45pm — No Comments

Psychological Abuse: 3 Signs of Crazy-Making by Family, by Friend, by Enemy

by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. We know it happens; yet when we see it, we’re in shock. And when we experience it, we’re numb. How can a family member, who once claimed to cherish you, plot to back you into a fabricated psychiatric label and sentence of craziness? That is the question that dumbfounds anyone who walks in these shoes. Sadly, most victims of “crazy-making” don’t realize they are walking this path until the psychiatric doors are locked…until the psychotropic drugs are administered…until… Continue

Added by Dr. Jeanne King on May 26, 2009 at 6:00pm — No Comments

Keira Knightley in anti-DV advert thought to be too realistic

Keira Knightley, actress of Pirates in the Caribbean took part in an advert to highlight abuse of women in the home.The advert can be found at the following link and is thought to be tooooo realistic!!!!!!!! What do you think.......... Janet http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/celebritynews/5226459/Cuts-demanded-in-Keira-Knightleys-anti-do… Continue

Added by Janet Stead on May 7, 2009 at 3:30am — 1 Comment

My first visit to this site

Abusers Isolate and tear you down My names is Dorothy and I blog on grammology.com I’m a wife mother grandmother great grandmother sibling and friend. At 63 in July I’ve lived a lot about life however not everything has gone the way I’d hoped. Like most of us we have dreams and it’s interesting when I ask friends how many have actually lived their ideas and we realize not many and often it’s because we’re repressed emotionally and have no idea how to step out and feel the moment. Therefore I’m… Continue

Added by Dorothy Stahlnecker on May 6, 2009 at 4:57am — No Comments

Crazy Making Legal-Psychiatric Abuse: Signs and Prevention

by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. So many of our readers are struggling with the same issue: “Why does he/she tell me, I’m crazy?” To help you sort through all of the crazy making inherent in living in and getting out of an abusive relationship, we have compiled this collection of insights and information. Crazy Making Legal-Psychiatric Abuse: Signs and Prevention Continue

Added by Dr. Jeanne King on May 5, 2009 at 9:12pm — No Comments

Family Court Violence and Crazy-Making Maneuvers

by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D. If I tell you that you are “crazy” and threaten to punish you because of what I have said, a part of you begins to question that maybe what I have alleged is true. Crazy-Making from the Outside In Then, if I tell someone in authority that you are “crazy” and consequently they set forth to create restrictions around your personal and civil liberties, then more of you questions...is this true? For full article:… Continue

Added by Dr. Jeanne King on April 24, 2009 at 10:07am — No Comments

Interactional Relationship Abuse VS Intimate Partner Violence: 3 Distinguishing Characteristics

By Dr. Jeanne king, Ph.D. We hear a lot about the “he said, she said” when it comes to relationship violence. The challenge for advocates and interventionists is to accurately ascertain, not only “who did what” but even more revealing, what are the underlying dynamics inspiring the altercations between the parties? There are some clear distinctions between classic “classic intimate partner violence” and “interactional relationship violence.” For full article, visit:… Continue

Added by Dr. Jeanne King on April 9, 2009 at 6:19am — No Comments

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