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Blog Posts

Intimate Partner Homicide - Domestic Violence as an Accident on Purpose

by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.



We hear about it and see it on the news routinely: “Man kills woman.”...“It was an accident.”



An accident is a defense, not a description of domestic violence. Domestic abuse is never an accident. Now of course one may say, “I didn’t know she was going to die when I beat… Continue

Posted by Dr. Jeanne King on August 1, 2010 at 7:27am

Domestic Violence Self-Help: How to Find Your Answers from Within

by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.



There are no “right” or “wrong” answers when it comes to domestic violence. Each situation is as unique as each person living it. You heard me. There are as many variations to this story as there are people living it. So, don’t let anyone tell you what you “should” or “shouldn’t” do.



Far too often survivors of domestic… Continue

Posted by Dr. Jeanne King on July 22, 2010 at 6:36am

Domestic Violence Divorce – The Key to Legal-Psychiatric Abuse Prevention

Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.



For over a decade, I have been writing about domestic violence divorce and legal-psychiatric abuse to aide battered mothers in family court. There’s no question in my mind that people who are re-victimized by a perpetrator’s use of the system know who they are. They know when this is happening to… Continue

Posted by Dr. Jeanne King on July 13, 2010 at 7:19am

Healing Victimization Habits of Abusive Relationships- Whose Problem Is Your “No?”

by Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.



When I say, “No” to a request of yours, whose problem is it? Is it your problem or is it mine?



Your answer to this question can give you insight into whether you are in an abusive relationship. It is also the answer to whether you are still practicing habits of victimization.



Healing… Continue

Posted by Dr. Jeanne King on July 10, 2010 at 12:03pm

Healing from Domestic Abuse – The Creation and Implication of Fuzzy Versus Firm Boundaries

By Dr. Jeanne King, Ph.D.



People treat you the way you teach them to treat you. If you request and insist on your boundaries being honored, they will be. On the other hand, if you allow others to determine whether to respect your limits or not, then expect your boundaries to be treated as they wish to do so.



This is an important lesson for anyone who has ever been in an abusive relationship, either with a parent or with an intimate partner. It’s a lesson… Continue

Posted by Dr. Jeanne King on June 10, 2010 at 7:16am

 
 
 

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